advantages of freedom

She is not certain .She is doubtful about the existence of real happiness. She suspects the individuality of a deep pain.Her respond to love is considered "inappropriate" by common people in town. Her reaction to "loyalty" is not the same with the others' , therefore she has been known as someone who disbelieves commitments of all sorts. Sometimes I think if she wasn't growing up in such an open minded way, and if her guardians had not respected her self-decisions as much, and if they'd not paid so much attention to her needs, which used to vary all the time, she would have been living an easier life ; and she would have been much more determined in making permanent decisions for her own good(in the others' eyes, so she'd not have been judged by them all the time in her life.) She'd always have so many choices in front of her to pick , and what she has been doing is "picking them one by one, at the fastest pace.So, her personality became so spontaneous, and in some people's eyes as ” wild “ and in the others', somewhat "unfaithful". Her other problem is that I cannot tell you how quickly she gets bored of everything she is working on at that moment of her life. She knows about so many things here and there, and she is not interested in or passionate about anything, ”how is it possible to concentrate in just one thing; to get so much involve with that one thing!" says she. for her "it is impossible””. Sometimes freedom and having open minded and caring parents not only is not so comforting for the person, but also is confusing and causes problems in such limiting society in the long run. Salome N.Saz